Handling your ex partner

 

Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend

ex partner: Handling your ex-partners can be a tricky situation. When starting a new relationship it’s important to find out if your new partner is really over their ex, if that’s not the case its worth analyzing the situation and really think to yourself whether you wanna find yourself later single again, when the ex wants your now partner back. If its s clear that your partner is well over his/her ex its time to move forward.

The Ex lover

However trouble may arise if their ex partner decide to contact them again after a long time, in your heart no matter how much you trust them questions will start coming up. Sometimes as many people do, it’s just the fact that they are adult enough to remain friends with their exes. However if the messages keep following up for a certain period of time its time to confront your partner and express your feelings and worries.

Handle the ex partner problem

If your partner still does not see a problem. it will be needed to make them understand what if the roles were reversed and you were the one being contacted by your ex at all times, what will be their reaction, will they not feel neglected? do not invent stories by stating that your ex is also contacting you, it will only make the problem worse, if everything else does not work maybe arrange a meeting with the 3 of you, in this sense the ex will understand that your relationship is strong and nothing could tear you apart.  Having on my side experienced this issue a good talk always work and the inverse role situation always had the desired effect as the partner realise that they are making a mistake that could jeopardise the current relationship you have.