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Possessiveness in Love

jealousy in a relatiosnhip

Possessiveness in love is one factor that can destroy a relationship. Being sometimes jealous can be a good sign despite a lot of disagreement about it but try to picture this: If a guy/girl talks to your partner do you not feel a bit annoyed about it, and come to ask a little question about it, even though the person may only be asking for directions.

Signs of Possessiveness in a relationship

That little jealous feeling is important but what is not good is being over jealous. If your partner starts accusing you of chatting up every girl/guy you see or are flirting with everyone you meet then a serious talk needs to happen, during that serious talk its necessary to explain to the person that you only have eyes for them, no one else. Jealousy in a relationship can come from insecurity or bad experience from their the past. If the accusation continues it might be  time to  ask yourself whether you want to be with a person that cannot trust you.

Dealing with a possessive partner

Therefore always explain your fear to the other person, if the person is not willing to change then it might be time to ask yourself whether the relationship has a future. As the thought of having your every moves questioned and being accused on a daily basis could take a heavy prize on both your emotional and physical health. Worrying, stress is not something you want to have too much of in any relationship. So think carefully and make sure that the other person understands that their behavior could have a negative impact on your future.

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