Love movies and Real life relationships

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Love movies many times make us believe or wish that our real live relationships, can be the same. Whether we think we will be showered with roses everyday, or make love once and get married after a couple of month like in many love movies, it seems to be an important thing that many people look for and believe that that’s how a perfect relationship should be. However as many realise and know a real life relationship can be far from the way it is in love movies. Work and stress and the lack of time we have can actually affect our relationships. For many it’s important whether woman or man that you will not  meet your lover like in the diary of Bridget Jones. So it’s important to understand that from the onset when looking for a new relationship or at the start of the relationship not to want or expect too much from the other person (but not too little neither).  The same could be applied to many out there that feel like their sex lives will be the one of a porn star and feel like whatever is seen in those movies should be the same behind closed doors.  Both of those lead to disappointment for both female and male that sadly realise that neither can happen like in those movies.